Break the Cycle. Heal Your Heart. Rebuild with Confidence.
Discover how purpose-driven women are healing emotional pain, rebuilding confidence, and creating healthy love โ without years of therapy.
Break the Cycle. Heal Your Heart. Rebuild with Confidence.
Discover how purpose-driven women are healing emotional pain, rebuilding confidence, and creating healthy love โ without years of therapy.
HEAL IT FORWARD
This October, your personal breakthrough helps
survivors of domestic violence rebuild their lives.
HEAL IT FORWARD
This October, your personal breakthrough helps
survivors of domestic violence rebuild their lives.
HEAL IT FORWARD
This October, your personal breakthrough helps
survivors of domestic violence rebuild their lives.
you are way stronger than you realize!
Youโve read the books. Youโve done the work.
But youโre still waiting to actually feel free, right?
Hi, Iโm Stephanie โ and I help women stop overanalyzing their pain and start reprogramming peace, confidence, and joy.
Healing doesnโt have to take years. You just need the right process.
~ Stephanie McPhail, MS
โStephanie helped me change in weeks what therapy couldnโt in years." โ Maria R.โ
you are way stronger than you realize!
Youโve read the books. Youโve done the work.
But youโre still waiting to actually feel free, right?
Hi, Iโm Stephanie โ and I help women stop overanalyzing their pain and start reprogramming peace, confidence, and joy.
Healing doesnโt have to take years. You just need the right process.
~ Stephanie McPhail, MS
โStephanie helped me change in weeks what therapy couldnโt in years." โ Maria R.โ
As Featured In:
Meet Your Toxic Love Transformation Coaches:
Stephanie McPhail and David Charon
Stephanie and David are a husband-and-wife coaching team helping purpose-driven women heal emotional wounds, release trauma, and attract healthy, loving relationships.
With over 20 years of experience, their combined approach blends psychology, neuroscience, and energy alignment to help clients transform fast โ without reliving the pain.
Meet Your Toxic Love Transformation Coaches:
Stephanie McPhail and David Charon
Stephanie and David are a husband-and-wife coaching team helping purpose-driven women heal emotional wounds, release trauma, and attract healthy, loving relationships.
With over 20 years of experience, their combined approach blends psychology, neuroscience, and energy alignment to help clients transform fast โ without reliving the pain.
What Do Our Clients Have To Say?
"I was at the point where I knew I needed more help. I was done and tired of toxicity. I was weary of the same drama and struggling to make sense of relationships!
I was reading personal development books, all types of relationship self-help books, trying mindfulness techniques to heal from past relationship trauma etc... You name it, I probably tried it as a way to overcome and find healing and understanding.
So desperate I was that I began looking on FB for some kind of toxic relationship/trauma support group. This is when I came across Stephanie & David's site, Being Loved Shouldn't Hurt. It described me perfectly...
A professional woman who has her s*hit together at work, but a complete mess in relationships. As you can imagine, I had spent a good fortune on my attempts with other self development and healing programs, so when I saw the cost of this particular program, well... it was not as costly as others.
So I jumped in and signed up. Something about this program seemed different to me and I was desperate and ready for something to work!! Sure enough, everything about this program works and flows to recovery, understanding, and healing! The weekly meetings, curriculum, and PSYCH-K sessions.
It is a complete and thorough program for women or men that are done with toxic relationships and know that there must be a better way! As a single mom, I know the major barrier to joining a program like this and that is FINANCES!! I get it, trust me. But here's the deal: life will not improve for us if we continue the same rut as usual. NOTHING WILL CHANGE, until we make a change and this change is to begin INVESTING in ourselves.
We must invest in ourselves to become better women, which then makes us better mothers and providers for our children! Our kids deserve a better version of ourselves and they will not receive that if we refuse to invest in our personal growth, journey and healing!
Also, another barrier as a Christian woman is hearing others tell us "just pray, just pray for healing and wisdom. That is all you need is Jesus..!"Trust me, I love my Jesus and I pray every single day, however, we NEED the help of others that are qualified and more prepared in certain areas to teach and instruct us on how to handle and deal with situations. We are human living this human experience, and it's necessary to lean on one another and learn from those that can help us grow!! I am a much better me after taking this course.
And I absolutely recommend it to anyone that is tired of toxicity and pain from relationships and ready to make a change!!" ~Alondra Magallanes Cooley
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Healing is Possible โ And You Donโt Have to Do It Alone.
"I wanted to give a shout out to Stephanie McPhail & David Charon and the amazing work they do in the inner circle. I signed up on Friday, August 6th and then left on a 3 day camping trip with my dog with tornado warnings and thunderstorms. I had limited internet, but enough to get the idea of what the Daily Accountability Check In was all about and how the group was structured. Since that phone call with Stephanie, I have: stopped thinking about and longing for the ex, I have met 5 new female friends and have gone kayaking, out for coffee, and am planning puppy socialization meetings in local parks. I have also reconnected with a male friend and am embarking on my first ever real friendship with a man! I am sleeping at night, getting up and loving life, I have goals, direction, have let go of some faulty limiting beliefs instilled in my a life time ago. I continue to have work to do, but I am well on my way in less than 2 weeks! Don't even get me started on the PSYCH-K session with David--life changing! If you are stuck in repeat and attracting the same toxic unavailable partners...do your self a favor and invest in your own healing instead of giving your heart to 10 more losers who are not doing their work. You deserve better. You matter! Congratulations for getting this far. I encourage you to take it to the next level and get yourself straight before looking for love. I believe it will make all the difference."
"Hey peeps in case you didnโt know, Stephanie McPhail & David Charon are amazing mentors! They provide you with the roadmap to develop the ability to gain self confidence so you can rebuild & recreate your framework so you can OWN your own life. Iโve been codependent since 13. It's the FIRST time in my life Iโm single and feel fully capable of coping with my own emotions and life issues on my own instead of running to a significant other or emotional attachment for comfort & security. I was skeptical about connecting because the belief โcan things really get better for me?โ always swirled in my head. Hands Down Best Decision Iโve Ever Made. These are amazing coaches. You won't be disappointed! They changed my life forever.Take your life back! Reclaim Your Power!"
โI am finally free of my negative thoughts and feelings about myself and the end of 7 yrs of a relationship. I want to shoutโฆ Iโm free at last...free from negative feelings, free from undermining my own forward progress, free to find a new love of my life. I love myself as I am and who I will become. I will be turning 50 in September and I am now excited.โ
โI have a calm and peacefulness I never experienced before. I really saw a turnaround, I wasnโt raging anymoreโฆ I have such a better work/life balance. If youโre in a place in your life where youโre really not sure where to turn next, I have no doubt that Stephanie and David can help you get there.โ
โThis program has done tremendous things for me, and Davidโs PSYCH-K was so helpful - I did wonders for my inner self and my beliefs and the way I looked at stuffโฆ Stephanie and Davidโs program came into my life at the perfect time, and I canโt appreciate it more. I am so much happier, and I donโt know how to thank them enough.โ
"I have so many wins after doing your program it's hard to list them all. Biggest is I never went back to my ex who is a child abuser, wife abuser, and chronic cheater! And now I'm with a wonderful hard working man that would give me the world if he could. I now know I have unconditional self worth, I've lost 25lbs, I've made new non-toxic friends, I've decluttered my house, I do less people pleasing and more self care, and I've learned I am the controller of my thoughts/actions. Overall I'm just darn happy. ๐๐๐"
"I wanted to give a shout out to Stephanie McPhail & David Charon and the amazing work they do in the inner circle. I signed up on Friday, August 6th and then left on a 3 day camping trip with my dog with tornado warnings and thunderstorms. I had limited internet, but enough to get the idea of what the Daily Accountability Check In was all about and how the group was structured. Since that phone call with Stephanie, I have: stopped thinking about and longing for the ex, I have met 5 new female friends and have gone kayaking, out for coffee, and am planning puppy socialization meetings in local parks. I have also reconnected with a male friend and am embarking on my first ever real friendship with a man! I am sleeping at night, getting up and loving life, I have goals, direction, have let go of some faulty limiting beliefs instilled in my a life time ago. I continue to have work to do, but I am well on my way in less than 2 weeks! Don't even get me started on the PSYCH-K session with David--life changing! If you are stuck in repeat and attracting the same toxic unavailable partners...do your self a favor and invest in your own healing instead of giving your heart to 10 more losers who are not doing their work. You deserve better. You matter! Congratulations for getting this far. I encourage you to take it to the next level and get yourself straight before looking for love. I believe it will make all the difference."
"Hey peeps in case you didnโt know, Stephanie McPhail & David Charon are amazing mentors! They provide you with the roadmap to develop the ability to gain self confidence so you can rebuild & recreate your framework so you can OWN your own life. Iโve been codependent since 13. It's the FIRST time in my life Iโm single and feel fully capable of coping with my own emotions and life issues on my own instead of running to a significant other or emotional attachment for comfort & security. I was skeptical about connecting because the belief โcan things really get better for me?โ always swirled in my head. Hands Down Best Decision Iโve Ever Made. These are amazing coaches. You won't be disappointed! They changed my life forever.Take your life back! Reclaim Your Power!"
โI am finally free of my negative thoughts and feelings about myself and the end of 7 yrs of a relationship. I want to shoutโฆ Iโm free at last...free from negative feelings, free from undermining my own forward progress, free to find a new love of my life. I love myself as I am and who I will become. I will be turning 50 in September and I am now excited.โ
โI have a calm and peacefulness I never experienced before. I really saw a turnaround, I wasnโt raging anymoreโฆ I have such a better work/life balance. If youโre in a place in your life where youโre really not sure where to turn next, I have no doubt that Stephanie and David can help you get there.โ
โThis program has done tremendous things for me, and Davidโs PSYCH-K was so helpful - I did wonders for my inner self and my beliefs and the way I looked at stuffโฆ Stephanie and Davidโs program came into my life at the perfect time, and I canโt appreciate it more. I am so much happier, and I donโt know how to thank them enough.โ
I have so many wins after doing your program it's hard to list them all. Biggest is I never went back to my ex who is a child abuser, wife abuser, and chronic cheater! And now I'm with a wonderful hard working man that would give me the world if he could. I now know I have unconditional self worth, I've lost 25lbs, I've made new non-toxic friends, I've decluttered my house, I do less people pleasing and more self care, and I've learned I am the controller of my thoughts/actions. Overall I'm just darn happy. ๐๐๐
Healing is Possible โ And You Donโt Have to Do It Alone.
"I wanted to give a shout out to Stephanie McPhail & David Charon and the amazing work they do in the inner circle. I signed up on Friday, August 6th and then left on a 3 day camping trip with my dog with tornado warnings and thunderstorms. I had limited internet, but enough to get the idea of what the Daily Accountability Check In was all about and how the group was structured. Since that phone call with Stephanie, I have: stopped thinking about and longing for the ex, I have met 5 new female friends and have gone kayaking, out for coffee, and am planning puppy socialization meetings in local parks. I have also reconnected with a male friend and am embarking on my first ever real friendship with a man! I am sleeping at night, getting up and loving life, I have goals, direction, have let go of some faulty limiting beliefs instilled in my a life time ago. I continue to have work to do, but I am well on my way in less than 2 weeks! Don't even get me started on the PSYCH-K session with David--life changing! If you are stuck in repeat and attracting the same toxic unavailable partners...do your self a favor and invest in your own healing instead of giving your heart to 10 more losers who are not doing their work. You deserve better. You matter! Congratulations for getting this far. I encourage you to take it to the next level and get yourself straight before looking for love. I believe it will make all the difference."
"Hey peeps in case you didnโt know, Stephanie McPhail & David Charon are amazing mentors! They provide you with the roadmap to develop the ability to gain self confidence so you can rebuild & recreate your framework so you can OWN your own life. Iโve been codependent since 13. It's the FIRST time in my life Iโm single and feel fully capable of coping with my own emotions and life issues on my own instead of running to a significant other or emotional attachment for comfort & security. I was skeptical about connecting because the belief โcan things really get better for me?โ always swirled in my head. Hands Down Best Decision Iโve Ever Made. These are amazing coaches. You won't be disappointed! They changed my life forever.Take your life back! Reclaim Your Power!"
โI am finally free of my negative thoughts and feelings about myself and the end of 7 yrs of a relationship. I want to shoutโฆ Iโm free at last...free from negative feelings, free from undermining my own forward progress, free to find a new love of my life. I love myself as I am and who I will become. I will be turning 50 in September and I am now excited.โ
โI have a calm and peacefulness I never experienced before. I really saw a turnaround, I wasnโt raging anymoreโฆ I have such a better work/life balance. If youโre in a place in your life where youโre really not sure where to turn next, I have no doubt that Stephanie and David can help you get there.โ
โThis program has done tremendous things for me, and Davidโs PSYCH-K was so helpful - I did wonders for my inner self and my beliefs and the way I looked at stuffโฆ Stephanie and Davidโs program came into my life at the perfect time, and I canโt appreciate it more. I am so much happier, and I donโt know how to thank them enough.โ
"I have so many wins after doing your program it's hard to list them all. Biggest is I never went back to my ex who is a child abuser, wife abuser, and chronic cheater! And now I'm with a wonderful hard working man that would give me the world if he could. I now know I have unconditional self worth, I've lost 25lbs, I've made new non-toxic friends, I've decluttered my house, I do less people pleasing and more self care, and I've learned I am the controller of my thoughts/actions. Overall I'm just darn happy. ๐๐๐"
Frequently Asked Questions
How is Life/Relationship Coaching Different Than Other Methods?
Most methods focus on understanding your pain โ we focus on reprogramming it.
Instead of spending years analyzing your past, we use rapid-change tools that shift subconscious patterns so healing feels lighter, faster, and permanent.
How Can Stephanie's Coaching Help Me?
If youโve been stuck in the same emotional cycles despite knowing better โ this work helps you finally feel better.
Stephanie combines neuroscience, trauma-informed methods, and compassionate coaching to help you rebuild confidence, boundaries, and peace in every area of your life.
How Does Coaching with Stephanie Work?
All sessions are done virtually, from the comfort of your home.
Each session builds on the last โ helping you identify and reprogram subconscious blocks, release emotional pain, and create new beliefs that support love, joy, and freedom.
Most clients notice major breakthroughs within the first few weeks.
How Else Can Stephanie and David Help Me?
Whether youโre navigating heartbreak, codependency, divorce, or toxic patterns โ we meet you where you are.
Choose your starting point:
๐ Free Masterclass โ Break emotional patterns fast.
๐ Mini-Courses โ Learn how to find healthy love.
โก 6-Week Rapid Reset โ Transform your beliefs and rebuild from the inside out.
๐บ Brilliant Life Blueprint โ The complete system for lasting peace and confidence.
Is This Right for Me If Iโve Tried Therapy Before?
Absolutely. Many of our clients come to us after therapy.
Traditional talk therapy builds awareness โ but not reprogramming.
Our approach works directly with the subconscious mind to create the results awareness alone canโt.
How Fast Will I See Results?
Youโll begin to notice shifts within the first few sessions.
Clients often report feeling calmer, lighter, and clearer โ sometimes after just one Rapid Reset.
